There is a house at 55th near State Line that used to be owned by a very charming couple, both with thick, dark hair, flashing dark eyes and generous smiles. They have three boys as I do, though theirs are now grown. I have always been inspired by her easy way in her role as fraternity house mother and by her abundant peonies.
The house is a large, brick Tudor that is squarish rather than long. Every year she put a Christmas tree in the front hall and the lights sparkled through the glass of the front door and I was enchanted, each time that I drove by, at the thought of a Christmas tree greeting visitors as they enter your home during the holidays. It is not something I ever imagined for myself. I never thought I would have the kind of space to set up a Christmas tree in the entry.
My house has a funny not-quite-entry, not-quite-part-of-the-living-room space to it. There is a perfect spot here for a table just under the stairs and I had just the right table and, of course, plenty of stuff to put upon it. What it needed was a lamp, but there was no outlet nearby. In my fret and worry of expense and my imagining that it would be difficult to add to an outlet there – for why wasn’t there one already, as the spot so obviously wanted it – I tried to put the idea out of my mind.
But as we drew nearer to the holiday and I moved furniture in my imagination to make space for the tree, nothing made sense. I realized that this spot, where the table normally lives, was perfect. Moving the table was easy, but the issue of the outlet needed to be addressed.
I outlined all the difficulties to a friend; the expense, the likely inability for an outlet to be placed there at all, the not knowing someone who could do it. She said, “I have a guy.” And she did. And he popped an outlet in the wall – and two others – for a very reasonable price, in a relatively short amount of time. All the difficulty, all the obstacles, all the stress was manufactured. None of it was real.
The charming couple has moved and their former home is undergoing renovations, hopefully being carefully modified to suit the family who now owns it. This year there are no decorations there. Instead, plywood covers the windows; changes take place out of the view of passers by. But I have a Christmas tree in my front hall and the lights sparkle through the glass of the front door and I am enchanted each time I drive up to see it greeting me and my guests during the holiday.
Thank you, as always, for dropping in. I am wishing you the best in the new year.
Patricia
Merry Christmas and a joyous New Year to you. I've so enjoyed reading your thoughts again and wish all the best for you. I hope someday you can try that cool bakery in KC that starts with an F. I saw it on our local St Louis PBS channel and I just wanted to drive there right off. Anyway, thanks again for the lovely thoughts
Lovely! Best to you, too.
So pretty, and resonant for me, as mine is also in a new house, and sparkling out a front window for the first time– sharing that bit of seasonal magic, blurring the line between inside and out, loving that. And this, the best line of all, may it cast its light straight into the new year: "All the difficulty, all the obstacles, all the stress was manufactured. None of it was real." Wishing you a very happy new year, Patricia!
Yay to a Rolodex full of worker's names who can do everything you have need of! Life is good. Merry Christmas.
Merry Christmas!! xo Mary
I, too, can be an exponential fretter with kingdoms of woe making barriers to possibility. Then, on the other hand, I'm a Libra. With power tools. Somethings work out. Somethings don't. I turned 65 this October, and from here on out, I going to choose action over fret.
A good electrician and a good plumber are a must to have in your little black book. Glad all worked out. You're lights are on and the glow is quite lovely. All the best to you and yours.
All the best to you and yours this Christmas.
It's great to see you blogging again.
I love a tree in the foyer, too, but I have never had room either. Yours looks fantastic.
I do have a recessed front entry porch, so this year, I said the heck with it, and put a full size tree on the front porch!
I love your musings~ this one in particular brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for this gem of a Christmas story on Christmas Eve. I think that I just might have a tree in my entry next year!
Merry Christmas!
It is the perfect spot! I love how a new home tells you how it wants to be loved if you let it.
You are making your new home as beautiful as can be and all yours Patricia!!
All the best to you and yours this Holiday Season!
xoxo
Karena
The Arts by Karena
I have a new motto, taken from Tom Magliozzi, the late Car Talk brother who died this year.
"If money can fix it, it's not a problem."
I am not rich but if a little money can fix things, why not? No problem.
Have a happy holiday. Your entry looks terrific.
Have a Very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
xo, lissy
Perfect! Merry Christmas!
Felices Fiestas
Un abrazo
Maite
So glad to see you're back! Was so sorry to see no new entries after Oct. Your writing never ceases to amaze me with its rare ability to translate complex emotions and thinking into language that just soars! Reading your entries gives me as much pleasure as picking up a favorite novel. Thank you and Happiest New Year.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and making me think too. Hope you have a wonderful new year ahead!