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“Mom, Are You Coming?”

One of the great, mutual joys of visiting Chicago was our tour of the Shedd Aquarium.  The middle Blandings boy has been an ocean enthusiast since he was about two-and-a-half.  A nature lover at heart, he was the one who entered our bedroom at 6 a.m. one day to report, “There’s a bat in my room.”  There was.  When I asked Mr. Blandings later if he was skeptical of the assessment he gave me a level look and replied, “No.  Because it was Ben.”


We have been wanting to take him to the Shedd since the mania began, but then number three came along and we looked up and it was five years later.

The creatures I was prepared for.  What took my breath away was the architecture.  “Are you guys noticing the building?” was a constant refrain during the entire trip, but here I could barely speak.

Design began in 1925 for a world class aquarium.  Ernest Graham of Graham, Anderson, Probst & White took the lead on the project.  Graham was part of a movement of city leaders to make Chicago, “The Paris of the Prairie.”

Following the World’s Columbian Exhibition in 1839 Beaux Arts architecture became the rage.  A marriage of intricate ornamentation and classic design principles, this public space sings its enthusiasm for its mission.

Shells, sea horses, crabs, fish and octopuses adorn door ways, walls and light fixtures.

I cannot think that it is a coincidence that the sea-foam green marble of the dado mimics the ocean.

The intricacy of the design is a marvel.  The attention to detail astounding.
I have a friend who did an internship with an architect in high school to meet a graduation requirement.  During the interview he asked her, “Do you look at buildings and wonder why they are built the way they are?”  Of course she replied affirmatively to get the job, but admitted to me later that she was a fraud.

But I do.  Beyond that, I wish I could communicate with those giddy ghosts who haunt these halls, designers who marveled at the freedom to create and the resources that were available to allow them to do so. 

Ignorant of how architects work, I have no idea if Graham would have been involved on this level.  Who received the job to go back to his drafting table to design the lighting?  The thrill of the task would surely have sent me to the ladies’ room to put my head between my knees.

The thing is, this building is a monster, even without the later additions.  We are not talking about a couple of clever mosaics in the entry; the wonder is everywhere.

The classic forms of the columns and friezes clearly keep the whole thing from tipping to kitsch.

A project like this in nearly unimaginable today.  The Shedd opened just following the stock market crash in 1929.

Over the next couple of years its founders shipped one million gallons of salt water by rail from Florida to accommodate the exhibits.  

You can feel them here, those men who committed to making their Midwestern town a destination.

Graham’s firm designed some of the greatest buildings in Chicago including the Field Museum, Union Station, the Museum of Science and Industry, the Civic Opera, the Wrigley Building and the Merchandise Mart.

The Shedd Aquarium was their last.

It was quite a finale.
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Home Again, Home Again

So, fun and sun with our big city friend in Vegas.  It was a birthday gathering of sorts, but that was really a thinly veiled excuse to get together.  Magnetic and engaging, he attracts, well, he attracts nearly everyone, but his crowd is largely smart and funny.  Some folks go back as far as grade school while others are more recent additions to his circle of friends.  It was an eclectic group.  Natives of New Jersey, L.A., Brazil, Tulsa and Kansas City, current residents of New York, L.A. and K.C.  Occupations ranged far and wide as well; law, real estate, IT, oil & gas consulting, acting, managing, writing, architecture (who was also a former model.)  It made for quite a stew and we should all be so grateful that our chef has such a knack for mixing people.  Needless to say, there were a lot of big personalities at the table.  Quick and lively, it’s a tough crowd for introverts.

We dined at the Mix at the Hotel at Mandalay Bay Saturday night which provided stunning view inside and out.  Our dinner placement was beautifully orchestrated and I had an old friend on one side and what I hope to be a new friend on the other.  This is the aforementioned Brazilian architect who took a few years off to model.  Obviously easy on the eyes and ears, his story was engaging.  He’s been back in architecture for a while now and is going out on his own.  Gracious and lovely, he asked me what I did and when I filled him in with a sentence or two he beamed and said, “See, we have so much in common!”  Yes, me, the Midwestern housewife blogger and he, the international, jet-setting, former-model architect.  But he was right, we did, and I hope to get some images of his projects to share.

Mr. Blandings and I are not gamblers.  We mostly sat by the pool and talked.  And ate.  If you’ve never been to Vegas and think you won’t like it, I have to tell you, there is a lot to like.  We stayed at the MGM Grand Signature which is attached to the MGM, but the building itself does not have a casino in the lobby and is entirely non-smoking.  It felt much more like being at a resort than being at a casino, which was just right for us.  We did do a bit of shopping as well, though I usually consider shopping a bit of torture, but in even in the most exclusive shops in Vegas everyone is lovely to you.  After all, no matter what you look like, you might have just hit it big.
And what folks look like is part of the fun as well.  The people watching is unbelievable.  You will never feel better about yourself than you do when you walk through a casino, truly anytime day or night as there is so little delineation between the two.  The day we left, coming down the elevator from the 38th floor, two young women in bikinis stepped onto the elevator at about floor 22.  Just bikinis.  Very small bikinis.  They carried on a lively exchange about whether or not to have an “AmEx” and how useful it would be in Madrid.  To be honest, they looked amazing, but even so the other mature woman on the elevator with us exchanged a slow-blink with me.  I turned slightly to exchange disapproving looks with Mr. Blandings and there it was written all over his face.  Jackpot.
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See Michael Run

This is Michael Bruno. Michael runs 1st dibs, a jazzy internet resource for antiques, objets and all things fabulous. Oh, and in his spare time (well, I do know he has a little help) he created one of the best on-line magazines around.

A few months ago, a pesky blogger (“A what?” “A blogger, you know like web log?” “I thought that was only for kids.”) started pestering Michael to come to Kansas City. Our dealers, she claimed, are top notch. Dibs-worthy. You must.
In an effort to get her off his back, Michael e:mailed and said, “How ’bout we profile you on the site?” That seemed scary. But Jennifer had gone first, and it looked great, and I learned new things about her which was fun.

All they needed was a little information, and a head shot. A head shot? Um, I’m a Midwestern housewife, as a species we are lacking in the head shot department. But my fabulous editor at Spaces, Zim Loy, stepped in to save the day. She helped locate a photographer (the lovely and patient Aaron Leimkuehler), and made a surprise visit the day of the shoot.

I think it went well, don’t you. OK, you’re right, that’s Barbara Barry. I wish I looked that relaxed. I don’t. Zim assured me, “Everyone hates to get their picture taken.” Clearly, except Barbara Barry – she looks fabulous.
Jump on over to 1st dibs and check out the blogosphere feature. Then keep checking, I happen to know they have some great ones planned. Besides bloggers, there are great features on designers, shop owners and tastemakers.

I’m so flattered, you can’t imagine. Many thanks to Marcia Sherrill and Patricia Dobashi, wonderful writers and women, both, for walking me through it. And, Michael? I’m forever grateful. I’ll tell you all about it when you come to Kansas City.
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Truly Grande

Mr. Blandings claimed he had sand in his eyes.

The Blandings have returned from the beach.  We had wonderful weather, great sand castle architecture, dolphin sightings, lizard catching and no internet access, which might have been a blessing.  We have been going to Boca Grande, Florida for the past eleven years, save the ones when we had newborns 2 and 3.  It’s a lovely spot on Gasparilla Island.  Not too crowded, just enough to do, and a few good friends from home.

A lot of information that you will find on Boca Grande declares that is has maintained the feeling of “old Florida.”  I don’t claim to be an expert on the subject, but the town is charming.  Not fancy.  No designer nonsense.  Boca Grande owes its development to the discovery of phosphate and the subsequent mining there of, at the turn of the (last) century.

Rail transportation soon followed, as did wealthy Northerners looking to escape their wintery homes.  The Gasparilla Inn was built to accommodate these visitors and stands today.

This is not where the Blandings stay on their visits, but I love to haunt the shops and the lobby. 

The island is also home to one of the du Pont estates.  Henry du Pont vacationed there, and it is my understanding that the home is still in the family.

I tried to convince one of my friends to wander in (it is a thing of wonder from the street with gazebos and painted grottos and palm trees) and profess dismay that it is not “open” as Winterthur is.  She demurred.

We could have easily stayed another week, except my heart was aching for Rosie.  She didn’t even do me the courtesy of being aloof to the house sitter when we returned.  Mr. Blandings and I spend a good little bit of our time on the beach designing the dream beach house.  Maybe by the time we get the boys through school, the du Pont family will want to shed one of the gazebos.

All photos Gasparilla Inn.

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Leap of Faith

There are moments in your life that you can’t really appreciate at the time. After I had my first child, the corporate environment of the foundation where I was working began to chafe. It got harder and harder to stay there, away from that baby, if I didn’t love it. And I didn’t love it.

So I left to stay home and devote myself to motherhood. For about six months. Then I started to get a little crazy. A few people had asked me to help with their houses and I thought it might be a good time to give it a go. Fun and flexible. Not a million meetings. No performance review to write. Perfect.

I really had very little idea what I was doing, so a decorator I had used kindly took me in and showed me the ropes. But who would hire me? I mean, really. I was a broadcasting major who had worked in not-for-profit for ten years. Then someone did.

A woman I had worked with at the Foundation called. She’d heard I was in the business and she was interviewing decorators, and was I interested? Well, sure. She’s fabulous; likely the smartest person I know who just happens to have amazing taste.

She was moving, but we met at the old house and she showed me a rug and her two favorite sweaters. At that moment, I didn’t know if she would like my work, but I knew we spoke the same language.

The project was a dream; it moved in phases over the course of several years. Most things went right; a few things went wrong. But we got to be friends and we had a great time and we certainly laughed a lot.

My dear friend moved to the west coast a few months ago. She invited me over before she left and we talked about what to take and what to leave. She generously gifted me some of her chairs.

We didn’t talk every day, or even every month, but I do miss her.

She’s doing just fine in her new digs and loving so much being closer to her family.

I ran across these pictures this weekend as I was cleaning up some files. Ten years later I look back and wonder what led her to allow me to mess with her nest. Lucky for me she has a high tolerance for risk.

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